If you’re looking to create a more feminine upper body, “10 Ways to Feminize Your Shoulders and Upper Body” offers easy tips for adding a softer, more graceful touch.

These steps can help highlight your natural shape for a delicate look.

Don’t worry about shoulder size; many cisgender women have broad shoulders, and some of the most stunning models and celebrities prove that.

However, if you’d like to minimize their appearance, here are 10 helpful techniques to achieve a more feminine look.

1. Find a Flattering Neckline

In general, it is best to steer clear of necklines that are square or horizontal. Instead, choose necklines with rounded or vertical lines to create a more flattering and elongated appearance for your shoulders. For instance:
Recommended Necklines

• V-neck
• Scoop neck
• Halter tops
• Wide shoulder straps

Avoid These Necklines

• Bateau neck
• Square neck
• Strapless or sleeveless tops
• Spaghetti straps

2. Wear Darker Colors On Top

Wearing dark colors can create a slimming effect, making it an easy solution to balancing out your proportions.

Consider wearing darker shades on top and lighter shades on the bottom for a visually appealing look.

3. Wear the Right Size Breast Forms

When selecting breast forms to balance out your shoulders, it’s important to find a size that isn’t too overwhelming for your upper body. Here are some general guidelines based on frame size:

• If you have a small frame, opt for a B or C cup.
• For those with a medium frame, a C or D cup will work well.
• Finally, if you have a large frame, stick with a D cup or larger.

4. Choose Your Sleeves Wisely

The type of sleeves you wear can greatly affect the appearance of your shoulders, either positively or negatively. Here are some tips to consider:

• Avoid sleeves that cut straight across your biceps.
• Avoid voluminous or frilly sleeves.
• Opt for sleeves with a slimming diagonal cut.
• For a universally flattering look, choose 3/4 length sleeves.

5. Avoid Shoulder Pads

This tip is obvious. Shoulder pads are the last thing you need, so don’t be afraid to cut them out of your tops and jackets.

6. Distract With a Printed Bottom

Using a distraction technique such as drawing attention away from your shoulders is effective. You can shift focus to your lower half by wearing a printed or embellished bottom.

7. Wear Skirts That Flare Out

Choose skirts that have a flared shape at the bottom to balance out your wider shoulders and create a more feminine figure.

Look for skirts with gathering, pleats, or an a-line cut. Avoid straight skirts or tight pants which can accentuate your broader shoulder area.

8. Choose the Right Jacket

When choosing a jacket, steer clear of broad collars and double-breasted styles. Instead, go for single-breasted jackets with narrow collars and lapels.

9. Know Your Best Necklace Length

Long necklaces create elongating vertical lines that can help create a slimmer appearance in the upper body.

It’s best to avoid shorter and chunkier necklaces, as well as chokers, which can have the opposite effect.

10. Find a Flattering Hairstyle

Your hairstyle can make a big difference. Here are some tips to consider:

• Hair that falls above or below your shoulders is usually the most flattering.
• Hairstyles that hit right at shoulder length tend to be less ideal.
• Straight hair can accentuate the angles of your body and make your shoulders look wider.
• On the other hand, full, wavy hair can help soften the shoulders and create balance for those with broader body proportions.

To learn more about selecting the right hairstyle, be sure to see my post on”Feminine Hairstyles: Tips and Tutorials“

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